Momma Says

Written by Sharvelle Bullock

In today’s social distancing world, unfortunately, a lot of families have not had the opportunity to host the usual spring social gatherings, graduation celebrations, or just simple hanging-out with those they adore, at least in the more physical setting, of which we long. 

I’m sure you’ve seen the Twitter threads, the hashtags, or the fun FaceBook Memes; people from all over share their most memorable mom sayings from their childhoods. Mothers from all over, jump online join in on the fun. To commemorate this Mother’s Day Holiday I thought it’d be fun to take a look at some of the internet’s most famous “Mom sayings”, and get the interpretations behind those quotes from real mothers. 

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Donna Richardson, age 61, Mother of four. 

“Don’t count your chickens before they hatch”

This is one of the more used phrases I say to my kids a lot. Basically, do not depend on one thing before it materializes, keep putting in the work until it actually comes to fruition.

“A little love soothes the pain”

When someone is going through a bad situation, this is the silver lining for encouragement.  

“Don’t put all your eggs in one basket” 

Always have a backup plan, spread around your good fortune.

 Or according to Donna, Financial Reasoning. 

“Always remember where you came from”. I say this one a lot too. To remind my children to be humble and grateful, no matter how much they achieve.

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Shantai Borum, age 43, Mother of four 

“I’m very sarcastic with my children; even with my school children, as a Chicago public school teacher, but obviously not in the same way.”

“ Don’t make me…”

Insert any credible threat, I say this a lot more than I thought I would as a parent. It’s letting the kids know that whatever behavior they are participating in, has got to stop or there will be consequences. For example: “Don’t make me turn this car around.” 

“Your dad works with glass, he isn’t made of it. Move!” I say this when they are blocking the television! 


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Lorri Lockhart, 44 years of age, Mother of 1

“This hurts me more than it hurts you”. My mom used to say this one to me if I was getting a whooping, and I understand it much more now that I’m a parent. It hurts for me to discipline you, but I know in my heart of hearts that its good for the child. As a mother, it’s your job to raise them and raise them right.

“Shut up crying before I give you something to cry about” my mother used to say this one a lot too. I did not like it because it made no sense to me as a child if I’m already crying how would that help? Make that make sense to me. 

Wash your mouth out with soap is one that is really popular but I haven’t heard it in real life only on television shows. I would never say that one!